Did you know IPA's contain high levels of phytoestrogen? Might want to change your beer choice or start growing man boobs. Anyway, that's not meant as an insult just a funny fact. I am 56, a former Marine from Jersey and have no long lasting male friendships and well, I am ok with that (and have been for years). Still able to shoot-the-shit on a regular basis with dudes. Intellectually, I tend to expect too much so a big part is my own fault. Then again, I'm kinda lucky because I am married to an alpha-female who talks like a trucker and is more left-brained. Grab some whiskey instead of beer, light a stogie and give an old friend a call.