So how to accomplish this without being accused of being misogynistic? My own journey began when I was in US Marine Corps Boot Camp where along with learning to fight, I also learned to sew, iron and keep tidy. Of course, we can't force this type of experience on men but that seminal experience broke all ties with being dependent on a woman and made me a better man. We, the elders, or at least approaching that time, need to find a way to assist these young soft boy types that seem to be everywhere. How is the big question because surely we would be accused of hating women or being anti-women, which is most certainly not the case. There are scary actors out there like the European Men's Movement (and others) that are indoctrinating this Jordan Peterson\Vladimir Put\Donald Trump type outlook which is opposite what we who try to be good men stand for. We need to take Bly's ideals to the next level in this age. Personally, I think grounding them in particular faith-based traditions would be helpful because the spiritual element is an important one and not one based on "made-up" spirituality but one grounded in tradition. For the atheists out there, one could also probably be developed along the lines of logic\reason\philosophy. That's my two kopecks, brother. Thanks for thinking of me.