Well, if you haven't found your soulmate maybe this is what one might think. The secet is to stop looking and let the Universe\God\Goddess bring them to you. Those who seek to not necessarily find. I might be skeptical if mine hadn't been dropped in my lap over 20 years ago now. She is my soulmate, foxhole buddy, partner, wife and friend. It is possible that yours will come to you just as much as it is possible they won't. However, making a general statement that something doesn't exist because it hasn't come into existence for you does not mean it does not exist at all. Found mine at the Jersey Shore of all places. Peace, don't give up on yourself and the power that is watching over you.